Monday, June 20, 2011

I have tried…

for weeks now to figure out how to say this… obviously unsuccessfully so I have come to the conclusion that I just need to spit it out without stressing over how to say it…

NO I am NOT pregnant, No I am NOT moving, No I do NOT have some fantastic job offer where I get paid spit loads of money for a few hours work… though if anyone knows of a job like this send them my way will you?!?!?!

I am however now the very proud owner of a mortgage, insurance bills, phone bills, power bills, car bills and a whole heap of other things typically ending with BILL!

And the big thing about it is that I am doing this solo…

Chris and I separated in May… needless to say May was a very busy month for me sorting out all of the above and simply getting through each day… June is turning out to be a slightly better month for me… and so I am hoping that each month leads onwards and upwards with only better things coming my way…

Chris has purchased a house in Southbridge… has regular time with the girls… who are enjoying having two houses… two bedrooms etc…

Oh and along the way I have learned that I am more than capable of doing some of doing things that I never thought I would… oh and my darling Daddy even sent me a parcel full of old hand tools so that I can actually do some of these jobs that need doing… so spare a thought for me wielding these tools... half of which I am just learning how they really should be used! NO more kitchen knives being used as screw drivers etc...



Blogger Jenny said...

"If I have to, I can do anything
I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman"

I think Helen Reddy was on to something when she wrote these words. You are strong and getting stronger and you can do anything. xxxxxx

9:19 PM  
Blogger Cheryl said...

Amen to that Jenny... yep Helen Reddy sure hit that nail on the head now didn't she?

Thank you kindly for all your support... know its gratefully received...

9:38 PM  
Blogger Ruebchensmum said...

I am sorry to read you had these days of troubles. But I am convinced you will overcome this.
I keep my fingers crossed for you.

11:02 PM  
Blogger Rebecca said...

Oh, honey! I'm so sorry to hear things have been so rough! I hope you are so much happier now!!! I knew there was a reason I was thinking of you lately - I'm sorry I didn't let you know! I'm always an email away if you need to talk!! :) (((hugs)))

4:02 AM  
Blogger Whimsical Woman said...

You expressed yourself beautifully about the situation you find yourself in.

Remember, we're not far away!

8:49 AM  
Blogger timounette said...

Cheryl, you have all my friendly support !!!
It's always hard to separate, but it you are an optimist woman ! Believe in you and in life !
Big hugs

9:28 PM  
Blogger Gabi said...

You are a very strong woman, Cheryl!
Any separation isn't easy but everything happens for a reason. Wishing you all the strength and optimism for the next days and years. Thinking of you!

4:16 AM  

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